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The Amar Method™ · A Four-Week Experience for Couples

THE AMAR SUMMIT
ALIGNED UNION

Reveal what you truly want, so the fire can rise, and the most honest thing between you can finally be spoken.

Couples Only Four Sundays in October 2026 Live Online
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Application required. You apply together.

Format
4 weekly sessions · live online
When
Sundays in October 2026
Who
Couples, applying together
Investment
$1,000 per person
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You built something together. A life, a rhythm, a language only the two of you speak.

Somewhere along the way, parts of the truth got quiet. Not because the love left. Because it began to feel safer to keep the peace than to say the whole thing.

Across these four weeks, you put the armor down. You reveal what you actually want, what you actually feel, and what you have quietly been protecting each other from. That is where the fire lives. Not in performance. In honesty.

This is a journey into yourself, taken side by side with the one you love, so you can meet each other from a deeper place than you have in years.

The Framework

Reveal. Release. Redesign. Declare.

Four weekly sessions, built on The Amar Method, your Survival Imprints™, and the Love Manuscript. A path from what is hidden to what you choose on purpose, with a full week to integrate between each turn.

Week One
Reveal
You each see your own pattern clearly, and you tell the truth about what you actually want. Both imprints, yours and theirs, brought into the light where they can finally be seen.
Week Two
Release
You set down the old contract, the score, the resentment, the story you have carried. And you learn to resource yourself, so you meet each other full instead of depleted.
Week Three
Redesign
You build the union on purpose. New agreements, new language, and a relationship map made from both of your imprints held together.
Week Four
Declare
You choose your union out loud. The truth you have found becomes the truth you live from, and you carry it home.

What Happens in the Room

Presence, not performance.

Guided by Elis Avellan. Every part of it is designed to bring you back to yourself, and then to each other.

Somatic co-regulation Guided journaling Open coaching Open sharing Live teaching Breakout groups Deep listening True self awareness Conscious reframing Mirror work

What You Walk Away With

Tangible. Not theoretical.

Four weeks that change how you speak, how you hear, and how close you are willing to be.

01
You feel seen, heard, and understood
You are received by your partner in a way you may not have felt in years. For some couples, in a way they have never felt before.
02
A new language to communicate and to receive
You leave with words that actually reach each other, built on your unique Survival Imprint™ and your partner's. You learn how they need to be heard, and how to ask for what you need.
03
The end of the quiet sabotage
You understand how, and why, you have been getting in the way of the very thing you want most, and how to stop.
04
A way forward you will actually take
You know exactly what to do next, and how to stay in motion long after the weekend ends, so the shift holds.
05
A real leap in closeness
The distance closes. Not by chance, but by choice.

The leap is available to the couple with the courage to meet themselves, and to honor the commitment they already made to each other.

What You Keep

Three things that are yours to carry home.

Deliverable One
The Aligned Union Love Map
A relationship map of your two Survival Imprints™, unique to you: how your patterns meet, where they nourish each other, where they collide, and the exact language each of you needs to feel loved and be reached.
Deliverable Two
The Self-Resourcing Map
A practical, daily map of how you honor and resource your own imprint, so you arrive to the relationship full instead of depleted. A resourced person can be present. This is how the relationship gets a real chance.
Deliverable Three
The Love Manuscript
The record of the whole journey, built across the four weeks and completed on Declaration. Who you are, what you revealed, released, and redesigned, and the truth you choose to live from.

The Schedule

Four weeks, live online.

One live session each weekend across October 2026, with a full week to integrate between each. Held live online, so you can join from anywhere. Exact session times are shared with accepted couples.

Pre-Summit
Week of Sep 28
Your Deep Origin Assessment
The week before we begin, both partners take the Deep Origin Assessment individually and receive their Survival Imprint™. You capture your intentions and onboard into the private space, so the first session starts deep.
Session 1
Sun, Oct 4
Reveal
Both imprints named. The honest truth of what you each want, brought into the light.
Session 2
Sun, Oct 11
Release
Set down what stands in the way, and learn to resource yourself so you meet each other full.
Session 3
Sun, Oct 18
Redesign
Build the union on purpose. Your Aligned Union Love Map, made from both imprints held together.
Session 4
Sun, Oct 25
Declaration
Choose your union out loud. The Love Manuscript complete, the truth you live from named.

Your Host

Guided by Elis Avellan.

A Deep Intimacy Guide and certified coach in somatic and nervous-system regulation, Elis leads every session. Her work is gentle: she creates safety in the body, so two people can meet each other, and themselves, from a calm and spacious place. We are certified coaches, not therapists.

Elis Avellan
Your Host
Elis Avellan
Deep Intimacy Guide · Somatic & Nervous-System Regulation
Elis helps people remember the truth held in their bodies. Through gentle somatic work and nervous-system re-patterning, she guides you out of survival responses and into safety, presence, and honest connection, and helps you find the words for what you most need to say. Her belief is simple: there is no bypassing your survival responses. The way through is to create safety in the body, so your choices come from a calm and spacious place. We are always a conversation away from returning to love.
With Cohosts
Electra Stone
Electra Stone
Creator of The Amar Method™
Anthropology and Behavioral Science. Electra brings the pattern work, so each partner sees what has quietly shaped the way they love.
Courtney Davis
Courtney Davis
Certified Coach
Psychology and embodiment. Her gift is speaking the truth most people do not dare to say, with a kind, crystal clarity.

Moments from the room

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Voices from the work

The work speaks for itself.

Real words from those who have sat with Elis, Electra, and Courtney.

★★★★★

“My partner and I spent three months exploring our relationship with Elis, and it was nothing short of life-changing. Her work in nervous-system regulation gave us the tools to finally navigate connection, and the impact reached far beyond our romance.”

A couple in the work
★★★★★

“We used to argue from our wounds, and someone always got hurt. Elis taught us to communicate from love and to meet each other from care and compassion. It changed how we move through conflict, and how close we stay.”

A couple in the work
★★★★★

“In six sessions with Electra I went deeper than I had in two years of therapy. I am finally the master of my own life.”

Verified client
★★★★★

“Transformative, eye-opening, and beyond worth it. If you want to level up your love life, do this, and say hello to the new, better you.”

Verified client
★★★★★

“It empowered me to discover what I truly want, in my relationship and in my life. A breakthrough, built on self-love and deep acceptance.”

Verified client
★★★★★

“You saw my wound from a single message, and you held it with grace, without collapse. That is what real holding looks like. I have never felt so seen.”

Verified client

Before You Apply

Questions.

Who can apply?
Couples only, and you apply together. This experience welcomes couples at every stage: just beginning, years or decades in, about to marry or newly married, or in a tender season and willing to look honestly at what you both want.
Is there anything to do before it starts?
Yes. The week before Session 1, both partners take the Deep Origin Assessment individually and receive their Survival Imprint™, capture their intentions, and onboard into the private space. It is what lets the first session begin deep instead of warming up.
When and where does it take place?
The Amar Summit is held live online, so you can join from anywhere. It runs as four weekly sessions across October 2026, on Sundays October 4, 11, 18, and 25, with a full week to integrate between each. The Deep Origin Assessment happens the week before, starting the week of September 28. Exact session times go to accepted couples.
Is there any nudity or sexual content?
No. There is no nudity and no sexuality of any kind, and you will never be asked to touch each other in front of anyone. This is inner, somatic, presence work, not a sex retreat.
How is our privacy protected?
Everything shared stays confidential. Every participant signs a confidentiality agreement before we begin, and phones are away during each live session.
Is this therapy?
No. The Amar Summit is a coaching and educational experience for personal and relational growth. It is not therapy, diagnosis, or a substitute for clinical care. If either of you is in active crisis, please seek appropriate clinical support first.

Are you ready to feel seen
and loved as you long for?

This is not for every couple. It is for the two who are ready to stop managing, and start meeting.

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$1,000 per person · You apply together